but a faithful man who can find?

Men are "jian"

Mum said to me.

Barely dead for 3 years,

he sowed his seed (successfully) in another woman.

the woman

2 children, by 2 different fathers.

and now,

the 3rd one, by the 3rd father.

because of their infidelity,

the children suffers.

i seriously feel that you dont have what it takes to give your child

the life a normal child would deserve,

den dont even give birth

cos u bring the child into the world to suffer,

just so that u can sign the papers with the man.

or maybe,

she truly loves him

and desperately wants a child of their own.

(despite already having 2 children)

either way,

the unborn child suffers,

isn't it?

how long more can they live?

another 10 or 20 years years?

after that,

the children are all alone.

not binded by blood ties,

i wonder if they will still stand together,

or fighting for assets?

Don't get married.

Live by yourself.

Your salary, only spent by yourself.

Mum said to me.

I used to have this idea of getting married at a very young age.

Cos i wanna be a hip mummy.

Many a man claims to have unfailing love,

but a faithful man who can find?

- Proverbs 20:6